A Key to Retirement Success: Why Adaptability Matters (And How to Build It)

By Jean-Luc Bourdon, CPA, PFS.

When discussing retirement planning, the focus usually stays on numbers: How much should you save? What's your withdrawal rate? How should you allocate your portfolio? However, recent research indicates we're overlooking a key factor that might be just as important as your 401(k) balance: your ability to adapt to change.

The Adaptability Advantage

Research indicates that retirees who demonstrate greater adaptability—such as adjusting routines, learning new skills, and embracing change—tend to report higher life satisfaction and maintain independence longer than those who struggle to adapt.

It's not just about keeping up with technology, but that's definitely part of it. Adaptability in retirement includes adjusting to new health conditions, changing family dynamics, navigating evolving financial situations, and shifting social roles.

Beyond Technology.

While digital literacy often takes the spotlight, adapting successfully to retirement requires multiple areas.

Health and Physical Changes: Learning to manage new health conditions, adapting homes for mobility issues, or finding alternative ways to stay active when previous methods no longer work.

Social and Relationship Shifts: Navigating changes in marriage dynamics when both partners are at home, maintaining friendships as social circles evolve, or building new connections after leaving workplace relationships behind.

Financial Evolution: Adapting spending habits to fixed incomes, learning how to navigate Medicare and Social Security systems, or adjusting investment strategies for different life stages.

Purpose and Identity: Reimagining self-worth beyond career achievements, discovering new sources of meaning, or finding ways to contribute that align with current capabilities.

Practical Life Skills: Yes, this includes technology, but also learning to ask for help when needed, finding new service providers, or adapting to changing neighborhood dynamics.

The Real Barriers to Adaptation

Before we explore solutions, it's important to recognize that adaptation challenges aren't just matters of attitude or willpower. Real obstacles include:

Physical limitations such as vision changes, arthritis, or cognitive shifts that genuinely make certain tasks more difficult, along with economic constraints that restrict access to new technologies, services, or learning opportunities. Design failures in systems and technologies that weren't created with older adults in mind, and social isolation that reduces chances to learn from others or get help when needed.

Understanding these barriers isn't about making excuses—it's about developing realistic strategies that address, rather than overlook, these realities.

Building Your Adaptability Toolkit

Here are suggested strategies to support curiosity, self-efficacy, a growth mindset, and positive self-concept:

Start with Your Values, Not Trends: Instead of trying to keep up with every new development, focus on the changes that matter most to you. If staying connected with family is a priority, learning communication apps makes sense. If maintaining financial independence is important, online financial tools might be worth the learning curve.

Practice the "Adjacent Possible": Borrowed from innovation theory, this concept involves taking small steps toward new capabilities rather than making big leaps. If you're comfortable attending small group activities, try volunteering a few hours weekly before committing to larger roles or leadership positions.

Build Your Support Network Early: Identify family members, friends, or community resources you can rely on for help before you need them. Many successful adapters take time to learn what senior services are available in their area—transportation assistance, meal delivery, home maintenance help—even if they don't currently need them. Knowledge is power and often adds peace of mind.

Invest in Learning Infrastructure: This could mean better lighting for reading instructions, a magnifying glass for tiny print, or using AI to deliver instructions, answers, and learning support. Small tweaks can make the difference between success and frustration.

Practice Self-Compassion: Research shows that people who treat themselves kindly during the learning process are more likely to persist through challenges. Expect setbacks and celebrate small wins.

When Not to Adapt: Making Strategic Choices

Here's something often overlooked in discussions about adaptability: You don't have to embrace every change. Smart adaptation involves strategically deciding where to invest your limited time and energy.

Some questions to consider: Does this change address a real problem in my life? Will the benefit outweigh the learning effort involved? Are there simpler options that accomplish the same goal? Do I have the support I need to learn this effectively?

Sometimes, the most adaptive choice is to find workarounds rather than fully adopting new methods. You may not need to become a power user for everything you decide to use. For example, you can enjoy Instagram without becoming an influencer or content creator.

The Financial Dimension of Adaptability

From a financial planning perspective, adaptability can directly affect your retirement security. Being able to adjust spending habits, navigate changing healthcare systems, or implement cost-saving technologies can significantly influence your financial comfort. Consider setting aside money for "adaptability expenses" such as courses, technology, home modifications, or services that help you maintain independence longer. These aren't just costs; they're investments in extending your independence.

Practical Steps for Different Adaptation Challenges

If you're struggling with technology: Begin with one device or app that solves a specific problem you encounter. Take advantage of senior-focused classes at libraries or community centers, where instruction is usually paced appropriately and stigma-free. Online tutorials, help forums, or even AI assistants can provide patient, judgment-free guidance when you're learning at your own pace.

If health changes are challenging your routines: Collaborate with healthcare providers to identify adaptive strategies before issues escalate. Occupational therapists, in particular, specialize in helping people adjust daily activities to changing capabilities.

If social connections feel harder to maintain: Look for structured opportunities to meet people with shared interests. Volunteer organizations, hobby groups, or faith communities often provide natural entry points for new relationships.

If financial management feels overwhelming: Many communities provide free financial counseling specifically for seniors. Professional fiduciaries and specialized financial professionals could also take over tasks you no longer wish to handle. It may be wise to evaluate and nurture these relationships before a need arises.

The Long View: Adaptation as Insurance

Think of adaptability as a form of insurance for your retirement years. Just as you wouldn't skip homeowner's insurance because you don't expect a fire, building adaptability skills offers protection against the unexpected changes that retirement inevitably brings.

The goal isn't to become someone you're not or to adopt every new technology. It's to maintain control and choices in your own life for as long as possible. Sometimes that means learning something new. Sometimes it means finding creative workarounds. Always, it means staying engaged with the question of how to live well in changing circumstances.

Retirement planning extends beyond just financial preparation. By acknowledging both the importance and the challenges of adapting, and by developing realistic strategies that consider individual circumstances and limitations, we can create retirement years that are not only financially secure but also truly fulfilling and independent.

Disclaimer: The views expressed in this article are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views of any firm or organization. This content is provided for general informational and educational purposes only and should not be construed as personalized financial, tax, accounting, or investment advice. Although the author is a CPA and holds the PFS credential, no professional services are being offered through this article. Readers should consult their own qualified advisors before making decisions based on this information. The content may include information from sources believed to be reliable but is not guaranteed and may be subject to change without notice.

Copyright: © 2025 Jean-Luc Bourdon, Original text, structure, organization, and editorial revisions created by the human author. The author used AI as a drafting tool, but exercised creative control by rewriting, restructuring, and contributing original analysis, tone, and expression. Disclosure in accordance with U.S. Copyright Office guidance on AI-assisted works.